Real life VS Practical life......
What is Real life? What is Practical Life? In which one do u actually live. Real life is how u actually wanna live and practical life is the list of compromises u make in ur real life. Everybody says " Be Practical ".. What do they mean by that..or in which way do they want us to take that particular advice? The next time a person say to u that just ask him/her how u can become practical, they will then give you a thousand reasons to compromise ur way of living saying that somethings are not possible and rest are possible...who will decide which is possible and which is not? If u cant decide about your life then the only practical thing you can do is to do as what other person says. Itz upto u to draw a line ... draw a line upto which others shud interfere in your life. Every person related to you has a role to play in your life and there are some persons who make your life worthwhile for living, try to figure out who those special persons are. Itz up to u to live and live for some purpose rather than making purposes out of living. Life is not a set of practical doings or life is not an experiment which you can bundle up with a number of practical doings...life is a experience in itself and for that u have to live to get experienced .. Live as u want , live as u wish rather than making compromises in your life... Life becomes practical when u think only by ur mind...but life remains real whn u think from ur mind and ur heart simultaneously. Itz upto u to decide how will life turn on you rather than waiting for life to turn on u and then taking the necessary actions.. Why shud u let life control you rather than u taking control of life...afterall itz ur life...the only practical thing u can do is to plan ur life to make it real... and the moment u do tht u will feel like living.. If u take decission only from ur mind then tht's what we can term as a practical life i.e real life kept aside intaking a lot of compromises... After many years when u turn back and see u will not see what have u done, u will only see how u lived. Life is not defined by the moments u took on compromises but the moments u took overcoming those compromises... Live a real life and do practical things.............
-------------------------------------------------------------------------------------- Sreekumar S
5 comments:
I don find myself that capable of commenting anything to this topic..
I have learnt many things from this one...
As you said everybody has a concept about their own life..i would like to say before i met you i havent seen anybody so clear about their own life as you are..you are definitely going to enjoy your real life and i am so lucky to have you as a frnd in my life.. anybody who ever is related to you is very special not because you have them in your life but only because they have you in their life...
your pal
Anu.......
Good yaar keep it up.
What life is ? A difficult question to answer. A better question would be "How life of an individual should be ?"
Life can't be defined in words or can't be explained taking example of an individual. At the most you can say "Life has originated and will end in future, how fast it will move towards end will be decided by the life of individuals"
Summation of individual life = Future.
How each person leaves his/her is either decided by himself/herself or by the enviornment around them. At what age people start thinking will decide how their life will be.
Can't say much. I may need to think more to understand life. There is always an lower and upper limit for each individual life. Is it true for the summation of individual life ?
thanx for putting forward ur view.....
Ya u put forward the summary of what i have written above except one thing...
u wrote Summation of life =future..
itz not future itz Present that is the true summation of life...
coz u cant predict whtz gonna hapeen 2moro..i.e there is no real existence of 2moro...itz only today in which u have to live....thtz wht we call real life..
I don't know how much I can express whatever in my mind.
Sreekumar, I think, everyone is practical in a sence. Only question is that how much ?
I shall take ur words "Only practical thing u can do is to plan.....to make it real".
when u are palning ur life that will become practical. Planing something itself is a practical approach.
Second thing, we can't live as we wish as we r living in a society(family).
Can we able to express our emotions to everyone?
Can we question our boss?
No, because we dont like to loose our job? we want to live "happily"?
For that happiness we r compromising something?
U r right in a sense that, we have to decide abot our life.
But it doesnt mean that a life without compromises? Life itself is a compromise! How much to compromise? for what? These things have to be answered by ourself.
Rafeeque
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