It isn't that hard enough to know the basic rules of life but usually people tend to learn it the hard way.It's not that they wanted to go through those painstaking moments, its just that it all happens so suddenly that they cant get out of those big waves of life's twist.
There are some people who tend to have some sort of pole(support) to lean on to when something unexpected happens . No matter how small the problem(in sense of magnitude) is, they will always depend on other's support. Then one fine morning they will find their only hope has vanished into thin air giving some great deal of explanations that this was wrong or that was not happening. These are the people who suffers the most of the pain.. the pain of parting, the pain of letting go what was once only theirs, the pain of feeling stuck up all alone in this not so kind world. Welcome to the club of beginners. They find it hard to cope but gradually they enter the cycle of getting things on their own leading to more understanding of the rules of life.
Then there are some who think no matter what happens things will be manageable in the sense that they are almost prepared for any sort of situations. And I think they are the ones who will make the most of it, i.e. the Life.. They may or may not be independent but they always consider themselves independent and that's what that always matter, coz that confidence only gives them the strength to stay afloat without drowning in the worst of cyclones or typhoon or whatever you call the hard times. They become their own rope in deepest waters, they become their own hope and they prepare themselves to cope...
So what are the rules of life??
I dunno I am still learning but I can be sure of some of those rules:
There are some people who tend to have some sort of pole(support) to lean on to when something unexpected happens . No matter how small the problem(in sense of magnitude) is, they will always depend on other's support. Then one fine morning they will find their only hope has vanished into thin air giving some great deal of explanations that this was wrong or that was not happening. These are the people who suffers the most of the pain.. the pain of parting, the pain of letting go what was once only theirs, the pain of feeling stuck up all alone in this not so kind world. Welcome to the club of beginners. They find it hard to cope but gradually they enter the cycle of getting things on their own leading to more understanding of the rules of life.
Then there are some who think no matter what happens things will be manageable in the sense that they are almost prepared for any sort of situations. And I think they are the ones who will make the most of it, i.e. the Life.. They may or may not be independent but they always consider themselves independent and that's what that always matter, coz that confidence only gives them the strength to stay afloat without drowning in the worst of cyclones or typhoon or whatever you call the hard times. They become their own rope in deepest waters, they become their own hope and they prepare themselves to cope...
So what are the rules of life??
I dunno I am still learning but I can be sure of some of those rules:
- Life doesn't stops or wait.
- Life doesn't decide how tough is your situation shud be, its you.
- Life don't knock twice, don't wait for the door to open by itself, rather try to open it for yourself...
- Life is not easy neither it is tough, its just the matter of good and bad times. And both times are not permanent.
- Life goes on, even if you choose not to live as u would have liked to.
- Life is an hell to someone who judges it and heaven to someone who lives it.
- Life doesn't comes with alternatives, its you who decide between the choices , quite a paradox isn't it?, but it's not coz wherever you are now to make a choice is a result of some choices made by you in past.
So what this blog is all about...
Just nothing...
Just trying to give words to things that were lying unexpressed inside my thoughts.......... Doesn't really matters if it doesn't make any sense or didn't leave a conclusion...
May be it's just like life... Always hard to express and definitely near to impossible to conclude (Literally)...
